This is not to say that it is a substitute for love.
This brings us to the subject of lingerie.
The submissive male needs to be punished and this is a good tool for masturbating without approval.
He can simply sit back and enjoy the freedom that comes from submitting to the feminine power of his significant other.
Regardless of what turns you on, you need to understand what is turning him on, so ask about it all, and find out just how far he would go.
In our case he has NO interest in drinking my pee.
He must give her respect, and recognize her superiority.
What I found is that the spanking excited him, he was very hard and leaking.
The chase, the foreplay, the nasty, slutty and crazy acts, all of it.
By far the simplest and most versatile conditioned stimulus is your voice you should develop conditioned stimuli for all his senses including vision and smell.
Erotic power will shape and transform your marriage.
The Scent of You:
Sure, your man is going to be leaking lube from his ass later that day, but it will make the anal experiences much more enjoyable.
You can find it on line or go out shopping together.
Our housekeeper of 15 years saw his new panties in the laundry, saw how I was controlling him, and loved the help she was getting.
I found a number of sites that cater to female style panties that are made just for men.